Today's Everyday Fashion: Another Colorful Work Look

 

Inspiration: Getty/Christian Vierig via Popsugar

 

My outfit turned out nothing like the original (left image), but was inspired by it nonetheless! I figured while I don't have floral shoes like hers, I do have a floral pencil skirt, and a coat in a bright color. Even if hers in purple and mine is yellow... that should work! And the rest fell into place. Color seems to beget color in this case, so hopefully one of our combinations will inspire a new color combo in your closet, too!

Sweater: J.Crew, $7 (similar, similar, similar)
Skirt: J.Crew, $48 (similar, similar, similar)
Coat: J. Crew c/o thredUP, $75 (similar)
Shoes: Saks Off Fifth, $60 (similar, similarsimilar)
Purse: Aldo/Amazon, $40 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Approx. dates: Skirt is 7 years ago. Shoes are 3 years ago. Purse and coat are 2 years ago. Sweater is 1 year ago.

Today's Everyday Fashion: All The Ballerina Feels

 

Inspiration: Imax Tree via WhoWhatWear

 

Continuing the theme from last week... here's another outfit using only old items from my closet! And while the inspiration photo is lovely and would look great at the office, mine is perhaps better suited for the ballet, a dinner date, or any 'ole time you want to feel feminine and frilly? Would you wear either look to work, or for a date?

Coat: Banana Republic, $130 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Faux fur scarf: Limited, old (similar, similar, similar, similar)
Top: Banana Republic, $35 (similar, similar, similar)
Skirt: boutique c/o, old (similar below)
Shoes: Betsey Johnson c/o Ross, $38 (samesamesame)
Purse: Aldo/Amazon, $40 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Approx. dates: Coat, faux fur scarf and top are 9 years ago. Skirt is 5 years ago. Shoes and purse are 2 years ago.

Asos  /  Boohoo  /  Asos  /  Boohoo  /  Boohoo
Dorothy Perkins  /  Lands' End  /   Boohoo  /  Boohoo  /  Forever 21 (plus)
Bloomingdale's (plus)  /  Kohl's  /  Lord & Taylor (plus)  /  Bebe  /  Shoptiques

Today's Everyday Fashion: Work Week Day 5 of 5

 

Inspiration: Loft Plus

 

There's just something about work pants; I've never liked them much or felt like I could really pull them off!! This pair originally drew me in thanks to the fun color. And the catalo photo sparked an idea to pair them with a striped turtleneck and navy blazer. (ps. did you hear that LOFT is adding plus size?! Very exciting.)  Do you wear more skirts or pants at work? And where do you buy your fabulous pants, so I can maybe learn to love them someday?

Blazer: Banana Republic c/o thredUP, $48 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Turtleneck: J.Crew c/o thredUP, $29 (similar below)
Pants: LOFT, $42 (similar below)
Shoes: The Fix c/o Amazon, $85 (flats, heels)
Purse: My Stella & Dot
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Approx. dates: Purse, turtleneck are 2 years ago. Blazer, pants are 1 year ago. Shoes are 6 months ago.

Nordstrom Rack  /  Zappos  /  Gap  /  Madewell
Old Navy  /  Talbots  /  Asos  /  Old Navy

Today's Everyday Fashion: Work Week Day 4 of 5

 

Inspiration: Zara

 

A blazer and a pencil skirt. It sounds unassuming enough, but what if that blazer is a cape blazer? And the pencil skirt is a trendy print? Today's look is all about breaking tradition at the office, and asking how far is too far? Because even if the dress code is "blazer and skirt" this look may not always fly. If you're working at a fashion magazine, maybe, it's apropos. But for a more traditional office, this outfit could be better suited for after-hours work functions where you still want to look polished, but the dress code is more lax. Would you wear this look to the office?

Blazer: Forever 21, $35 (similar, similar)
Top: Saks Off Fifth, $30 (similar below)
Skirt: H&M, $25 (similar below)
Shoes: Dolce Vita c/o Amazon, $73 (similarsimilar)
Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off 5th, $288 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Necklace: Saks Off Fifth, $22 (similar below)
Approx. dates: Top, shoes are 3 years ago. Blazer, skirt, purse are 2 years ago. Necklace is recent.

Nordstrom  /  Asos  /  Nordstrom  /  Forever 21
Kendra Scott  /  JCPenney  /  Macy's  /  Francesca's
Asos  /  Rue La La  /  Boden

Today's Everyday Fashion: Work Week Day 3 of 5

 

Inspiratoin: FabSugar

 

Shoes are arguably the most important component of work attire. They add style, but they also make it possible for you to move about your day and complete the tasks required by your job. Over the years, I've seen more discussions about shoes than anything else: team flats vs. team heels. The good news is that the same shoe you're digging can usually be found in multiple formats. My mules, for example, come as flats and pumps, see below. Or the red flats in yesterday's post could be swapped to red heels instead. It's one of the easiest things to switch in an outfit - and it may even make sense to stock your closet (or desk) with both. Would you wear today's look? Are you team flats, team heels, or both?

Top: Wyatt/Bluefly, $37 (identical, similar, similar, similar)
Skirt: LOFT, $35 (similar, similar, similar)
Shoes: The Fix c/o Amazon, $85 (similar below)
Necklace: My Stella & Dot
Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off 5th, $288 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Sunglasses: Charlotte Russe, $4 (similarsimilar)
Approx. dates: Skirt is 4 years ago. Top and purse are 2 years ago. Shoes and necklace are recent. 

Today's Everyday Fashion: Work Week Day 2 of 5

 

Inspiration: WhoWhatWear

 

In an ideal world, our work dress codes would perfectly align with our own personal style. It wouldn't call for suits if we prefer jeans. It wouldn't frown upon being dressed up or wearing bright colors if we prefer showing a little flair. Today's outfit is for both scenarios. If you prefer dressed down, this outfit combines the comfort of flat shoes and a cozy sweatshirt, with the formality of a pencil skirt. (Add a blazer instead of the coat to take it up an additional notch.) If you prefer dressed up, sneak in a skirt and fun colors without raising eyebrows by keeping it casual with a sweatshirt and flats. Would this look fit into your dress code? Why or why not? 

Coat: J.Crew Factory, $58 (similar below)
Top: Wildfox c/o thredUP, $25 (similar below)
Skirt:  J.Crew Factory, $30 (similar below)
Shoes: J.Crew Factory, $49 (similar below)
Purse: Aldo/Amazon, $40 (similarsimilar)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Sunglasses: Charlotte Russe, $4 (similarsimilar)
Approx. dates: Purse is 2 years ago. Skirt, coat, shoes are 1 year ago. Top is recent.

Bloomingdale's  /  Missguided  /  Macy's  /  H&M
Nordstrom  /  J.Crew  /  Saks Off 5th  /  Macy's
Shoptiques  /  Amazon  /  LOFT  /  Amazon
DSW  /  Anthropologie  /  DSW  /  DSW

Today's Everyday Fashion: Work Week Day 1 of 5

 
 

Inspiration: JustFab

I issued myself a little challenge: five office looks over the next five days, using only old items from my closet. And I can't wait to share the results with you! Although... I'm exceedingly aware that "work" means such different things to different people, depending on your geography (each region of our vast nation not to mention the world have very different codes of dress!), your occupation and your specific workplace. I don't necessarily imagine a scenario where all five looks would work for any one person or office. But I did have an awful lot of fun putting them together! AND I would love to hear how each look would or would not work for your office. So, first up: a navy double-breasted blazer with a floral pencil skirt. The inspiration photo offers a great cold-weather option with boots and a coat in place of the blazer (you could even add tights). Would you wear either version? Why or why not?

Blazer: Banana Republic c/o thredUP, $48 (similarsimilar, similar)
Top: H&M, $10 (similarsimilar, similar)
Skirt: HSN c/o, old (similar below)
Shoes: The Fix c/o Amazon, $85
Purse: Aldo/Amazon, $40 (similarsimilar)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Sunglasses: Charlotte Russe, $4 (similarsimilar)
Approx. dates: Skirt is 3 years ago. Top and purse are 2 years ago. Blazer and shoes are 6 months ago. 

Today's Everyday Fashion: This Leopard Shirt Is Always On Repeat

 
 

This top has been my go-to for going on 5 years now. I love the fabric (100% silk) and it's so easy to throw on with a big necklace when I'm running out the door! Makes a statement with so little effort. I've never worn it with a faux fur vest, but on this day I brought one in chase it got chilly. The temperature plummeted after the meeting I was attending, and it was COLD when we snapped these (28 degrees the following morning!), so I was happy to have it. Most winters my warm clothes don't get utilized nearly as much, but this year is an exception - all my coats and faux fur vests are getting a serious work out! 

Top: C. Wonder c/o (similar below)
Jeans: Nordstrom, $78
Vest: Calvin Klein c/o Ross, $35 (similarsimilarplus)
Shoes: The Fix c/o Amazon, $85
Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off 5th, $288 (similarsimilarsimilar)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Necklace: My Stella & Dot
Approx. dates: Top is 5 years ago. Purse is 2 years ago. Jeans and shoes are recent.

Today's Everyday Fashion: Ladylike In Black & White

 
 

What is it, exactly, about a strong collar? Is it the sense of authority, a nod to clergymen and First Ladies? Or perhaps nostalgia for throwback 1950s styles? Whatever it is, I'm a huge fan, and could not believe my luck when I scored this top secondhand. I wore it with jeans the first couple times, but it's also, I discovered, the perfect companion to this old stripe skirt. (As well as these earrings; I can't believe how well they match!) There's something about ladylike black and white that I just don't think I'll ever tire of.

Top: Aqua c/o thredUP, $26 (similar below)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Skirt: boutique c/o, old (same, similar)
Coat: boutique c/o, old (similar, similar, similar)
Shoes: Charles David c/o (same, similar)
Purse: Marc Jacobs/Saks Off 5th, $288 (similarsimilar, similar)
Approx. dates: Skirt is 5 years ago. Shoes are 4 years ago. Coat is 3 years ago. Purse is 1 year ago. Top and earrings are new. 

Today's Everyday Fashion: Winter Is Gloomy So Here's Something Colorful

 
 
 

Inspiration: ModCloth

 

Clothes are so much more than fluff. Consider their ability to lift the mood of the one wearing it, and those around them! That is precisely the goal of today's outfit. When I saw the inspiration photo it sparked an idea to get creative with a skirt I wore last summer (here). I thought why not make it work for multiple seasons by pairing it with a yellow coat?! And the rest of the details fell into place. Spring can't get here fast enough!

Coat: J. Crew c/o thredUP, $75 (similarplus)
Sweater: Old Navy, $12 (similar below)
Skirt: ModCloth c/o, $60 (similarsimilarsimilar, similar, similar)
Shoes: Steve Madden c/o (similar, similar, similar)
Purse: Mud Pie c/o, $25
Earrings: Kate Spade outlet, $15 (same)
Approx. dates: Sweater is 4 years ago. Shoes are 3 years ago. Coat is 2 years ago. Skirt, purse are last year.

Gap  /  Talbots  /  Modcloth  /  Shoptiques
French Connection  /  JCPenney  /  Gap  /  Macy's

 
 

This One Healthy Change in 2017 Made All The Difference

 
 

Is it too dramatic to say my life is forever improved, with just one simple lifestyle change? Because it certainly feels that way, and I've been telling anyone who will listen!

Last June, I was feeling frustrated. Something was "off" and I couldn't figure out what was going on. Unexplained weight gain and bloating that after 6 months of eating (what I thought was) super healthy and working out a ton, and my body wasn't responding. I felt sluggish, I felt swollen and I really didn't like being so out of tune with my body - something was wrong. Not knowing what else to do, I reached out to a friend and health expert for some recipes. The meal plan she sent me followed essentially one rule: only eat 50 carbs per day. A banana has approx. 27 carbs, the tortillas I had been eating have 55, a cup of black beans has 116. So in order to meet my allowance, I cut ALL grains, bread, oats, rice and legumes. (I only eat meat, dairy, veggies and some fruits) The diet is similar to "keto" (which is super popular right now), it just has a slightly higher carb allowance.

If it sounds like torture, I totally hear you. Bread has always been my favorite. But honestly I like the food I eat now so much better! Things I normally would've considered "off limits" I can eat all I want, and my cravings for bread totally went away. But here's the important thing: bread is not worth how sick I was before. And not eating it healed my body in some seriously intense - and unexpected - ways: 

1. Healed hypoglycemia
Thanks to genetics, I've been chronically hypoglycemic since childhood. It's similar to diabetes in that your body can't manage it's own blood sugar (mine constantly crashed, I couldn't go 2 hours without desperately needing a snack), but it's also the opposite because you produce too much insulin, versus not enough. Hypoglycemia is a precursor to Type 2 diabetes, and to put it in perspective: after just 2 weeks on a trip in 2012 without access to healthy foods, I developed diabetes. (Which thankfully went away when I returned home to my usual diet.) 

I won't lie, the first two weeks of keto were terrible. I had the "low carb flu," and felt super weak like a deflated balloon. And then after that... the fog lifted. My sugar crashes went completely away! I felt like a new human, and was sure I must have diabetes because I felt so good (diabetes has serious long term affects but you can't feel it moment-to-moment the way you can hypoglycemia). A visit to my doctor and blood work confirmed that my blood sugar was in fact perfect and I had accidentally healed the #1 thing that ailed me everyday. I will always be at high risk for diabetes thanks to genetics, but keeping your blood sugar steady is healthy for everyone, and is the best way to ensure it never happens to me again!

2. No more migraines
I was taking Aleve almost daily for migraines, which I always believed to be linked to hypoglycemia. Turns out "heal the blood sugar crashes, heal the migraines" because I've barely had any since I switched! 

3. Discovered a gluten allergy/intolerance
During the holidays I cheated on my diet twice. And while I haven't been tested yet, I'm 99% sure I have an allergy or at least an intolerance to gluten. A handful of non-digestive symptoms (sore throat, fatigue, canker sores that won't heal) have been plaguing me off and on for three years. Symptoms appeared within hours of eating flour, and went away with healthy eating. So relieved to have solved this mystery! (My canker sores would get so bad that it felt like a toothache, and the pain would spread up my face.)

4. Lost weight
Healing my health was numero uno, but there has been another unexpected benefit: it changed the appearance of my body. I have not worked out since I changed my diet (something I'm adding back in in 2018), but I lost a lot of weight. A lot of that was a constantly bloated stomach from eating gluten, but some was body fat, too. If you are looking for a weight management diet, keto seems to be a good solution for that as well!  

The moral of the story: listen to your body. I never realized how much what we eat is manifested in our daily health! And find out what works specifically for you. My diet definitely may not be the right formula for what your body needs, or be your cup of tea. That's okay. Just please don't try a new diet without the supervision of a doctor. And if something is ailing you, it just might be food-related! You never know!

 
 

My Keto Survival Tips

- Make a double batch of this zucchini lasagna to get through the initial low-carb flu
- Fast food picks: Five Guys lettuce wrap burgers or Jimmy John's Unwhich. YUM!
- When you want dessert: make your own ice cream with just one ingredient, bananas!
- Homemade marinara, because store bought is loaded with carbs, and homemade is SO much better, I'm never going back!
- No one will ever know these gooey chocolate peppermint cookies are gluten-free
- When you are seriously craving bread: these bacon cheddar biscuits
- Roast some cauliflower and then use it as a base instead of carbs - think loaded baked potato, nachos, you name it. You can indulge in all the toppings, and cauliflower is a good base!
- Another good base is zoodles - zucchini noodles. Buy a spiralizer and go to town!
- Just keep reminding yourself: bread might be off-limits, but you can have all the bacon and cheese you want! That's all this girl needs.

What are your keto recipes or tricks? Please share them in comments below!! 

 
 

Today's Everyday Fashion: My Version Of This Celeb Outfit Is Not Nearly As Cute

 
 

Inspiration: STARZFLY/BAUER-GRIFFIN/GETTY IMAGES via purewow

Is it the hat? I think it might be the hat. Hers is super cute. And I like those rad shoes, too. It's certainly something because I would wear hers, but I'm not sure I would wear my version. Most of the time little differences don't matter and I would even recommend changing a thing or two so that you're not totally twinning, but I think this time it was a swing and a miss. What would you do to improve this look?

Jacket: Saks Off 5th c/o, $39
Tee: Everlane c/o, $15 (fair trade)
Jeans: American Eagle, $41 (similar)
Sneakers: Adidas c/o Amazon, $79
Purse: Rebecca Minkoff c/o Stein Mart, $149 (same)
Scarf: Banana Republic, old (similar, similar)
Hat: Kohl's, $11 (similar, similar)
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Approx. dates: Scarf is 10 years ago. Hat is 3 years ago. Purse and jeans are 2 years ago. Jacket, tee and sneakers are last year.

Nordstrom  /  Nordstrom  /  Nordstrom  /  Shopbop
Madewell  /  Nordstrom  /  H&M  /  Nordstrom

Today's Everyday Fashion: Why Do I Love Graphic Tees So Much

 
 
 

Inspiration: WhoWhatWear

 

Where does my enthusiasm for (slash borderline-obsession with) graphic tees come from?! Perhaps it dates back to high school when I only wore t-shirts, so they are nostalgic. Or perhaps it's a desire to "elevate" my style origins, so I'm constantly looking for fun new ways to dress them up. Or maybe that's just always been my default, and some things never change? (Kinda neat to think about why we are drawn to specific things!) I have, on numerous occasions, wished I had a graphic tee with red on it that wasn't Mickey Mouse, SO... David Bowie is new. Welcome to my closet. It's going to be a wild ride...

ModCloth Email

Also: I recently posted about this coat from ModCloth but unfortunately it didn't work out. Love the color and polka dots but the shape is definitely "cocoon" on me, which is code for really boxy and unflattering. Looks really cute on her though!

Coat: J.Crew Factory, $58 (similarsimilarsimilarsimilar)
Tee: ModCloth c/o $29 (old gift card)
Skirt: J.Crew c/o thredUP, $19 (similar, similarsimilarplus)
Shoes: Vince Camuto c/o HSN (similarsimilar)
Purse: Mud Pie c/o, $25
Earrings: My Stella & Dot
Sunglasses: Express, $25 (similar, similar, similar)
Approx. dates: Shoes are 3 years ago. Coat is 1 year ago. Purse, skirt are 6 months ago. Tee is new.

Revolve  /  Express  /  Missguided  /  Macy's
Macy's  /  Bloomingdale's  /  Amazon  /  Macy's
Forever 21  /  Rue La La  /  Amazon  /  Express

My Clothing Budget Update - August to December

1. Faux Fur Vest = $45
2. Skinny Jeans = $78
3. Navy Dress = $35
4. Ribbon pin = $29
5. Star bodysuit = $35
6. Bell Sleeve top = $32
7. White Necklace = $22
8. Long Earrings = $19
9. BAnd Jacket = $72
10. Beret = $6
11. Black Cami = $25
12. Jeweled Belt = $35
13. Pug Sweater = $35
TOtal = $468

This is a recap of everything I purchased with my clothing budget since my last update on August 9th! These posts aren't necessarily an example of what to buy per se (see * below for why my budget may look a little different), but it's a fantastic practice to follow in general. Both setting a budget, and then reflecting back on what you purchased to evaluate and hopefully improve future purchases. I always aim to make thoughtful purchases that I will want to wear for many years to come, and to pursue creative expression through fashion responsibly, but that can sometimes be a tricky balance. There's certainly always room for improvement!

1. Floral top = $10
2. Pink Cami = $20
3. White Dress = $85
4. Pink Tiered Dress = $30
5. Chambray top = $13
6. Denim Skirt = $26
7. White SunDress = $30
8. Yellow Dress = $70
9. Floral Dress = $60
10. Feather Earrings = $21
11. Fun Sandals = $39
12. Choker = $4
13. Patch Jeans = $10
14. White Heels = $23
15. Gold Heels = $25
Total = $456

Over the last 5 months I spent $184.50 per month and averaged 5.6 items, which is slightly under my $250 monthly clothing budget. At this point, I'm carrying a positive balance of $1,097, see chart below. (I treat my budget like an allowance and at the start of each month I deposit $250 into an "account" and then spend as I go.) I've considered resetting my balance to zero at the end of the year, but then I might be motivated just to buy things so I don't lose it... Or, I could donate it to charity, but we already donate way more than I spend on clothes each month, plus - I'm learning there's a huge psychological benefit of carrying a large balance. It helps me make better purchasing decisions! I used to come from a place of scarcity when I shopped. "I don't want to spend any money on this" was always in the back of my head. Shopping with a positive balance that doesn't expire feels so empowering and encourages me to buy what I really want, versus letting price dictate the decision too much. 

*Note: My clothing budget only includes things that I purchased myself, that fall into the "clothing" category of my budget, and do not include Stella & Dot items (I'm a 1099 employee and earn products and discounts), items that were returned, free items I get from working in the fashion industry (I borrow and then send back items from sponsored posts whenever possible - see Disclosure for more info. However, sometimes that's not possible, or I wind up keeping an item for future use in blog posts). My clothing budget is my "fun money" as much as it is my traditional clothing budget - which is actually considered a necessity and a line item any financial planner would recommend. See "How to Set a Clothing Budget" for more details on that.

Do you have any favorites or fails from these purchases? Recommended changes for next time?

Today's Everyday Fashion: My Word For 2018

 
 
 

Inspiration: Who What Wear email

 

Picking a "word" for 2018 was originally an accident. I was texting a friend when I noticed my phone had autocorrected a word I typed to "roar." We made a joke about it, but then I realized "roar" was actually quite applicable to our conversation. When it came up randomly several times over the next couple weeks, I decided to officially adopt it as my motto! It has several meanings, one being "brave" and represents a time in life when I've never been so pumped about possibility, and the willingness to dream really big. The air is abuzz with potential, you could say. Did you choose a word for 2018? I'd love to hear what your year represents!

Poncho: Ross c/o $20, old (similar below)
Sweater: J.Crew Factory, $36
Skirt: H&M, $26 (plussimilarsimilar/plus)
Boots: ALDO, $199 (similar, similar, similar)
Purse: My Stella & Dot
Necklace: Stella & Dot, old (similar, similar)
Hat: boutique c/o $7, old (similar)
Approx. dates: Poncho, skirt and boots are 2 years ago. Hat, sweater and purse are 1 year ago.

Is This The Next Big Trend? Why Fast Fashion And Fair Trade Are Not Your Only Choices

 
 

Remember that time in our nation’s history when we didn’t fully understand how unhealthy fast food was? And then we groggily stumbled out of our artificial sweetener-induced haze into our current reality: that of avocado toast, farm-to-table, and kale, kale and more kale? It’s a pertinent metaphor for the clothing industry because we seem to be on a similar journey. Think about it: clothing is SO much cheaper than it was 20 years ago. Which means something is terribly wrong. Prices should be going up due to inflation, not down. And yet, what drive-throughs did for food seemed great at first too. The convenience! And it’s so cheap!

I felt that way when fast fashion first came onto the scene. Forever 21 single-handedly rescued our threadbare closets in college. It was the first retailer I could really afford, and we no longer had to wait for years to try the latest trends. We were free to explore style and express ourselves with clothes for the first time (which I believe is a very valid desire, one I would even argue is at the center of a woman’s heart).

We are living in the fast food age of fashion, but documentaries like The True Cost, campaigns like Fashion Revolution, and a crop of fair trade brands like Reformation and Everlane are working to change that. And I’m over here a mix of excited and horrified because I think it’s possible we are completely missing the point. Or, at least, the very valid third option in between.

Because let’s examine much of fair trade's response to our nation’s insatiable appetite for junk food: soggy broccoli. Really?! How is this going to solve the clothing industry’s problems? (Which, btw, is literally killing people. Many workers who make our clothing overseas are essentially slave labor and it’s the second most polluting industry in the world after oil. The Aral Sea is now known as the Aral Desert thanks to cotton. It’s truly a global crisis.) The fair trade industry often relies on guilt to sell, but how about focusing on great design, and creating things people really want to wear? Many who consume fast food (fashion) are not necessarily ready to forgo donuts (cheap t-shirts) and switch to an organic plant-based (certified fair trade) lifestyle just based on feelings. And when you judge them for not wanting it on a moral basis, you only push them farther and farther away.

 
 

If I sound frustrated, I am. I was a kid during the rampant materialism of the ‘90s and witnessed the relentless pursuit to buy bigger and bigger houses and fill them with more and more things. Like so many Millennials, I just don't flow with that way of life. I rarely care about objects and I live a pretty minimalist lifestyle. I choose to spend most of my expendable income on things that matter the most: experiences like travel, and giving back through nonprofit donations. And then a small sliver goes to the passion, hobby and art form that I choose to pursue in my free time: fashion.

And so, from that perspective, I started this fashion blog in 2010. You’ve heard me say it a million times – I don’t quite identify with fashion magazines. I don’t vibe with the idea that my outer appearance is the most important thing about me. (I grew up thinking that I'm smart, witty and compassionate and if someone liked my outsides that was cool, too.) I don’t want to spend all my time and money chasing a dream to be thinner, younger, or achieve some pre-determined ideal of beauty. I’m not buying it. So when I learned about the concept of blogging for the first time, I set out to prove that you didn’t need all that money or the same physique to have just as much fun with personal style as your favorite celeb. I have a realistic clothing budget (same one for going on 10 years now), and I aim to show what you can achieve with an “everyday woman’s” closet, how re-wearing what you already own versus buying new is just as exciting, and how being responsible with clothes can actually be kind of cool.

In some ways, it took off overnight. Within a year I had over a million readers, and in a five-year span I made more than a million dollars from blogging. In other ways, it went over like a load of bricks. I am a total odd ball in the fashion world, and I will definitely never be a part of the “it” crowd. I don’t look like other fashion blogs and bloggers, I certainly don’t have as many Instagram followers because the preference is for sites with expensive new designer duds each day. (No judgment though. You should definitely follow whoever strikes your fancy.) I am so basic and boring over here wearing no-name brands that I’ve had for 10 years, and yet I’m also having the time of my life (what I call the “audacity to enjoy myself”) which is probably what keeps people reading. (That and clearly some sort of divine intervention – I sometimes think that can be the only explanation.)

 
 

I’m totally good with all that. Because my career and blog were designed to not fit in with that side of the spectrum, and not fitting in is a healthy indication that I’m doing something right. But something much more disturbing started to occur to me over the years: that I will never fit in with the “other” side either. I will never be a minimalist in the purest sense, and I will never have a capsule wardrobe or wear all fair-trade fashion (until there’s major change), and so essentially, I’m extraneous to both sides! Yay!

Or rather, I’m utterly irrelevant to one side (soooo boring, eye roll) and then hypocritical to the other. (In one breath I will say something supporting materialism, and the the next I'm supporting minimalism – because, hello, I agree with and disagree with parts of both. That’s what choosing balance and eschewing extremism looks like.) I essentially belong nowhere, with no one (media-wise). So it’s not surprising that my blog is often not embraced, or totally misunderstood. (To use a metaphor, I’ve been part of the tiny house lifestyle from the start, but people keep asking me “Have you heard of the tiny house movement?” UM, YES. That’s literally what I’ve been promoting since day one. Which is such a huge compliment on one hand, because it’s right under their nose and they don’t see it? I’m making the clothes I’ve had for years look so exciting that you don’t immediately realize it's an ethical fashion site? Brilliant! It's both a marvelous compliment and incredibly frustrating.)

But I suppose this misunderstanding about ethical fashion is another sign I’m doing something right. too? Because I’ve done the whole extreme minimalist thing before and I’m never going back. In my early 20s I operated from a place of guilt clothing-wise and lost out on an exciting job opportunity because I was too cheap to buy the proper suit. I was constantly freezing living in Boston, and embarrassed for being dressed too immaturely at work. I tried the Henry David Thoreau route, but it didn't eliminate the hassle of clothes from my life, it made them a problem. So I set a clothing budget, and pushed through my legalism (my feelings were mostly religious in nature) and bought the clothes I really needed. And the craziest thing happened – I discovered I really enjoyed the forbidden fruit. That it actually didn’t turn me into a vain, superficial, narcissistic person overnight just because I pursued it responsibly as a hobby. And, after years of feet dragging and squirming, I finally let go and embraced that enjoyment fully.  

 
 

So, back to that fair trade you’re pushing. From an ethical standpoint, I would love to buy it, but aesthetically it's not what I'm shopping for. Where is the color, embellishment, texture, pattern, structure?! The pizzazz?! My style motto is “more is more and less is a bore” so it all falls... a little flat. And me giving in and buying it out of pity (I tried that approach for awhile, too) is just making clothing industry problems worse. Women who were guilted into buying fair trade now simply own more. The things they really like, and then the fair trade stuff that just hangs there, a grim reminder of their failed attempt.   

I'm championing a different approach to fashion partly because I do think aesthetics matter. I do think that me feeling confident and happy is a worthy cause, especially as a woman. (Repeat after me: You. Are. Worth. It.) Our desire to look beautiful comes from this amazing, magical place that’s innate and we are up against two sides each day: one side screaming that our bodies our everything, and the other shaming us for caring about our appearance at all. But I refuse to be shamed. I refuse to accept the directive to just cover up (modesty), or just don’t draw attention to yourself. Just stuff those sartorial desires down deep and by all means, don’t express yourself, ladies! (No thanks.)

Perhaps most importantly though, I think forcing us to only buy fair trade (or things that support our favorite charity) is impractical. If we really want to revolutionize the industry, it starts with us healing our broken relationships with clothing, one-on-one. It’s us deciding once and for all that we are only buying things we actually like, not just what’s cheapest or fastest, or most ethical, or so that we fit in with any one particular group, and that includes fair trade. We are worth the investment. Our clothing should make us happy and properly communicate with the world around us. Our clothing means something.

 
 

When we start buying things we actually enjoy, we stop buying as much. It eliminates the need for repeat purchases. Sometimes it requires spending more up front (or you can also keep your budget exactly the same and just buy fewer items), but you wind up saving money in the long run. And can we please not be extra about it? One of the most misconstrued messages from ethical fashion is that it’s either fair-trade certified or super modest, etc., or nothing at all. When in reality plenty of things exist that are neither extreme. J. Crew, for example, does not market themselves as fair-trade, however they give great consideration to the environment and how workers are treated overseas

I’m not choosing fast food anymore but I’m also not going full Whole 30. Because there are so many perfectly balanced, healthy meals in between. And, interestingly, when we stop feeling guilty or judging others we're actually motivated to make better choices. (Like maybe don’t call out the person at McDonald’s because they'll just run further and further from being willing to try kale. Kale is delicious when prepared correctly, so hopefully they try it someday.)

I can already feel some comments brewing so let me address this one: “But J, you are literally the most guilty person of pushing fast fashion ever in the history of blogs, and your hypocrisy is astounding.

  • I am honored that this blog looks exciting enough that you may have missed that it’s been about ethical fashion from day one. Huge compliment.
  • It’s possible you're using the term “fast fashion” wrong as that’s often the case. Fast fashion means clothing was produced quickly. The clothing industry quickly put a runway trend in stores for mass consumption. So according to that definition, YES, I do shop fast fashion at times. But, “irresponsible fashion” is what you’re accusing me of here. Which is the decision of a person to treat fast fashion as something disposable, to be worn once and thrown out, which has huge negative environmental and economic impacts, and that has NOT been promoted here from day one. A person can eat healthy and still go to McDonald’s; there are grilled chicken salads on the menu. It’s the same with fast fashion stores. Once you take a deep breath and stop judging for a sec, you can see that many do sell items made of quality fabrics and you just have to be picky. And what you do with it (being responsible and keeping items to re-wear for years) matters the most.
  • People do this amazing thing where they become more educated and change. It happened to me after traveling to Haiti in 2015 and India in 2016 to shadow fair trade companies, and in doing in-depth research for my book. I've changed my approach to shopping quite a bit, which is something you can see unfolding right here. Me championing "fast fashion" in the early days came from a good place; I wanted and still want to be a good steward of money. I understand now how a person can take it too far and be too budget-conscious, and I’ve certainly adjusted my approach a bit.
  • Ultimately, I’m not perfect, nor do a claim to be. And one of the ways I live out that claim is by not judging how other people choose to live their fashion life. The space between two extremes means balance, but it’s also an incredibly expansive gray area with so much room for disagreements. And that’s okay with me. You do you and I’ll do me, kay?

Watching the clothing industry change over the last 7.5 years of blogging has been exhilarating and inspiring, and also incredibly frustrating. We seem to be on the cusp of a tiny house/farm-to-table movement of our own and I’m excited to play a small part. Someday we will have what I call “the Whole Foods of fashion” with thousands of options and I can’t wait. (Please get with the program, clothing industry.) Someday that will all be a reality. But for now I’m out here orbiting somewhere in the gray area. Please feel free to join me in a “middle fashion” revolution that's all our own. 

 Also, my book – which is a further exploration of this topic and others such as the importance of art and self-care, body image, and finances - is, thanks to my publisher, only $2 on Kindle for the whole month of January! So grab your girlfriends for book club and get ready to take a deeper look at the way we get dressed. There’s so much to explore. And there’s not one, universal answer for anyone. This book – and being in the middle - is all about freedom.

We're (Really, Maybe) Moving To Cancun

Out of 6,000 applications from 120+ countries, we made TOP 50 in Cancun.com's CEO search!! WOO HOO!! We so appreciate your votes on our first video, and now it's time to rally support for our second, final video. Please watch it HERE and VOTE daily through January 13th!! The Top 10 will travel to Cancun at the end of the month for an "Amazing Race-style" competition to determine the winner, who then receives a paid 6-month travel gig in Cancun as the prize. We are already feeling so inspired by this experience that no matter what happens we want to spend 2018 traveling and making videos!! (This is our third-ever video together and we are hooked.) We appreciate your votes SO much and hope you enjoy watching - we loved showing you around our hometown!! xoxo - The Johnsons 

Today's Everyday Fashion: 10 Fails From Last Year And How I Improved Them

 

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I went with my gut and returned the red dress on the left last year. Smart move because I far prefer this amazing red dress on the right from this year! If you aren't 100% in love with something it's probably not worth it. Save that budget for something you like better!

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Same black fringe skirt worn with a denim jacket, but... I far prefer this year's version on the right! 

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Same top, jeans and purse, but with an upgrade on the shoes and jacket + I added a belt. Definitely like the second attempt better - the colors are more harmonious!

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I remember posting the left outfit last year and not loving it right away. I think because shoes without socks looks a little silly when it's cold enough for a beanie and coat! I tried again this year with tall boots and a plaid scarf and it made a world of difference! Sometimes, an outfit needs just a couple small changes to make it work. 

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Same burgundy sweater (that I've had for 6 years!) in both. Although technically I like both of these outfits a lot, this year's version with lots of color was just too much fun! 

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Honestly, sometimes I'm not sure what in the world I'm wearing. Being unrestrained during brainstorming is key with fashion but my willingness to try anything also leads me to... well, this look on the left. I far prefer this year's preppy attempt on the right! 

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I wore the left outfit for a speaking engagement at a university and I gotta say... I clearly struggle with work clothes. This is not my favorite look because it doesn't feel like "me." I rarely need office attire, however, having an amazing dress on hand just in case really pays off. In fact, it even encouraged me to up my game (by being more professional/dressy) so much that I've already worn it for three events. Apparently I do enjoy wearing work attire, it just takes the right dress!

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Took my own advice in the left post and didn't keep this sweater. In Florida, there just aren't enough occasions weather-wise to wear them very often so I try to be very picky. This year, I opted to wear an old sweater I've had for 5-6 years instead!

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I've had this slip dress for 3 years and posted 5 outfits with it so far. I love the idea of wearing a sweater over it, but not so sure I'm feeling the rest of the execution on the left. Loving this year's version with a suede jacket though!

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I felt sort of "meh" about last year's Christmas outfit with this plaid skirt. I wore it again for Christmas this year, but the shoes, top and jeweled belt were major improvements!

 

Today's Everyday Fashion: Two Winter Coats Because It's Snowing In Florida

 
 
 
 

It was chilly when we shot these photos a few weeks ago, and it's even colder now - it's actually snowing in some parts of Florida!! When it's really cold, your coat is the star. You can throw one on in a bright or unique color, add a fun scarf (plaid is clearly a personal favorite, but floral, polka dot, stripes, all work), and you're pretty much set. Easiest combo and it's fun, too. Then just wear on repeat until it's warm enough to shed those extra layers and start having fun again with the outfit you're wearing underneath!

Yellow coat: J. Crew c/o thredUP, $75 (similar below)
Red coat: J.Crew Factory, $58 (similar below)
Yellow coat scarf: boutique c/o (same)
Red coat scarf: Mud Pie c/o
Hat: Kohl's c/o, $11 (similar, similar, similar)
Jeans: Levi's c/o Amazon, $37
Boots: Michael Kors/Macy's, $225 (similar)
Purse: Michael Kors/Macy's, $220 (similar)
Approx. dates: Boots and purse are 3 years ago. Red coat is 2 years ago. Yellow coat is 1 year ago. Jeans are 6 months ago. 

Missguided  /  Boden  /  Macy's  /  Asos
Nordstrom   /  H&M  /  Bloomingdale's  /  ModCloth
Lands' End (plus)  /  Macy's  /  ModCloth  /  Bloomingdale's
 

Today's Everyday Fashion: I Wore A Beret In Public And I Liked It

 
 

Inspiration: Atlantic Pacific

 

Women all over the world are pulling off berets like total champs (my inspiration photo, cough) but I'm over here like "umm, not so sure." I'm either stubborn or persistent because I decided to give it another try, despite wearing one wrong in photos last year (... a couple of times). First, I wore my new beret for these photos, and I have to say, I was not hating it. I love the inspiration and I like how my outfit came out, too. Then, I wore it with an off-shoulder ivory sweater in real life, all day long, and loved it. Turns out... I actually can pull one off?! Have you ever worn a beret?

Coat: ASOS c/o, $97 (similarsimilarsimilarsimilar)   
Top: LOFT, $32
Pants: Express, $42 (similar, similar)
Shoes: Betsey Johnson c/o Ross, $38 (samesamesamesame)
Beret: Charlotte Russe, $6
Purse: Aldo/Amazon, $40 (similarsimilar)
Sunglasses: Charlotte Russe, $4 (similarsimilar)
Approx. dates: Coat is 3 years ago. Pants, purse and shoes are 2 years ago. Top is recent. Beret is new.